How To Fall In Love Again – What Made Your Heart Go “Thumpity-thump”

What do you do to fall in love again when things have gotten, well, a little boring? Does each day feel like the one before? Would you like to know how you could get your relationship back the way it was when you first went out? It’s not impossible, but there are some things you need to know.

Do you know what made your partner fall in love with you to begin with? What was it about you that made him/her swoon with love. If you could figure out what made them love you in the first place, why couldn’t you use that to learn how to fall in love again?

How To Fall In Love Again

If you were to ask most people why they love their wife, husband, partner, etc… many wouldn’t know what to say and would probably end up just saying something like “I just do”, never mentioning anything specific. But there had to be “something” or you wouldn’t have gotten excited to see them each time you were together.

The real answer is that two people fall in love because of the way the other makes them feel. If there was no happy feeling, no excitement, no joy, I don’t think the relationship would last very long, so it’s something about themselves that rubs off on the other. If you really want to know, why don’t you just ask your lover how you made them feel when you were first going out?

It may be something that you never even realized. It could be that you made them feel very intelligent and smart. Or you may have made them feel sexy and sophisticated. Whatever it is, it’s that feeling that made them joyful in your presence and why they fell in love with you in the first place.


By knowing why they are happy in your company will make the answer to the question, “how to fall in love again” much easier to figure out. If you know the answer you can use it to rekindle your relationship and fall in love again over and over each time it needs a reboot.

If my relationship was getting stale and it needed a boost, I would definitely find out what made them like you in the beginning and use that to learn how to fall in love again and get back that “lovin’ feeling”. It’s never too late and you may be surprised at what you find out!