”Do I still love my ex?”, it’s a question many people ask themselves after a break-up. There are many emotions that we go through when we break-up with someone and it could be a little difficult to understand all the mixed feelings we may still have for them. Even if it was a rocky relationship, sometimes we can still harbor feelings for the other person. This can go on for many months, even years.

In order to ever move on from one relationship to the next, we must sort through how we feel. If we can’t let go of our emotions we will probably never be able to have a fully healthy, functioning relationship with someone else. It is never good to hold onto old feelings – whether good or bad. Until you answer the question, “do I still love my ex?”, you will never be able to move on.

Find Out: Do I Still Love My Ex?

I am going to ask you a few questions. Once you answer them, you will have a better understanding of where you stand with your emotions towards your ex:

• Do you have a strong feeling or desire to see your ex?

Usually when a person is still in love with their ex, they have a very strong desire to want to see them again. You may want to phone them even if it’s just to hear their voice again. Have you ever driven past their house or place of work, just to hopefully catch a glimpe of them? You may have tried to see if they were hanging out at your favorite restaurant. All these are signs that you are still in love with your ex.

• How many times do you think of your ex?

Do you find that you are constantly reminded of them and thinking about them every time a certain song comes on the radio? Do you watch romantic movies and wish that the two of you were back together? Who is the first person you think of to call whenever a crisis or unsettling event occurs? These are also signs of being in love with your ex.

• How does it feel to think about your ex being with someone else?

Being in love with your ex, means that you are probably feeling very jealous if you hear that they are with someone else or see them together. Anger may follow as you think “how dare they invade your territory” even if your ex is no longer with you. 

Now that you have read through the questions has it given you a better understanding about your feelings and maybe you have actually said yes, I still love my ex? Most people who have ever asked that question, usually still harbor some feelings and need to sort through them.

Whichever decision you have made, whether you think you want to try and make up or you want to move on, needs to be thought about and pondered in a caring, calm way. Your decision will effect both you and your ex. Whatever that decision may be, you then need to begin to research additional information that can help you either get back together or move on.

What do you do to fall in love again when things have gotten, well, a little boring? Does each day feel like the one before? Would you like to know how you could get your relationship back the way it was when you first went out? It’s not impossible, but there are some things you need to know.

Do you know what made your partner fall in love with you to begin with? What was it about you that made him/her swoon with love. If you could figure out what made them love you in the first place, why couldn’t you use that to learn how to fall in love again?

How To Fall In Love Again

If you were to ask most people why they love their wife, husband, partner, etc… many wouldn’t know what to say and would probably end up just saying something like “I just do”, never mentioning anything specific. But there had to be “something” or you wouldn’t have gotten excited to see them each time you were together.

The real answer is that two people fall in love because of the way the other makes them feel. If there was no happy feeling, no excitement, no joy, I don’t think the relationship would last very long, so it’s something about themselves that rubs off on the other. If you really want to know, why don’t you just ask your lover how you made them feel when you were first going out?

It may be something that you never even realized. It could be that you made them feel very intelligent and smart. Or you may have made them feel sexy and sophisticated. Whatever it is, it’s that feeling that made them joyful in your presence and why they fell in love with you in the first place.

By knowing why they are happy in your company will make the answer to the question, “how to fall in love again” much easier to figure out. If you know the answer you can use it to rekindle your relationship and fall in love again over and over each time it needs a reboot.

If my relationship was getting stale and it needed a boost, I would definitely find out what made them like you in the beginning and use that to learn how to fall in love again and get back that “lovin’ feeling”. It’s never too late and you may be surprised at what you find out!

Break-up. It’s a word that shoots right through our hearts. It’s painful, gut-wrenching and not what any of us want to go through, especially if you still love the other person. Everything feels all topsy-turvy and nothing seems right. The life you’ve known is not there anymore.

What do you do? How do we try to feel at least a little bit “normal” at a time when nothing feels that way? It’s especially painful when you have been together for a long time or have been living under the same roof as the other person.

How To Get Rid Of The Break-Up Blues

When a break-up occurs, you need to try and focus on something else. This may be difficult to do, but it is essential to try and move your mind from the break-up towards something more joyful. Many people who go through a break-up get stuck in the fact that “life is over” and they can’t move on.

Don’t let this happen to you. You need to put yourself in survival mode and tell yourself you will make it through this. Life goes on. It’s a harsh reality and one that needs to be met head on. Do not get stuck in the past, look towards the future.

To make this an easier process, avoid going to any place that will remind you of your ex. Avoid restaurants, parks, anywhere where the two of you used to spend time together. If you have to, even avoiding mutual friends would be a good idea at this point. Friends who are truly friends will understand and can pick up on the relationship at a future date.

Get back into doing the things that you did before you started the relationship. Is there anything that you stopped doing while you were together that you would love to do again?

Guys: Were you active in sports? Do you miss the old softball team? How about the dart tournaments at your favorite hang out? Miss watching the boxing match with your best buddies?

Girls: Do you miss the book club at the local coffee shop? Going to the movies for “girl’s night out”? Spending time at your sewing machine making things for yourself?

Becoming interested in the things that used to make you happy will go a long way in healing the painful feelings you are going through with the break-up. After a little while you could even try and call your old friends and hang out sometime.

Each little step is a step closer to heal. I bet that there will be a time when even seeing your ex face to face will not provoke bitter, angry feelings and instead you will be able to hold your head high and be proud of who you are. The break-up blues will vanish and you will feel like your old self again!

“The Course of True Love Never Did Run Smooth” – William Shakespeare…but that doesn’t mean you can’t try and make it better!

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At the beginning of a relationship everything always seems so wonderful and exciting. This is the time when you both feel the most romance and are often thinking if he/she is “the one”. Everything seems so perfect. The bad thing is, this part usually doesn’t last long enough. The romance fades and that wonderful feeling is left on the back burner. Then you both begin to wonder, “how to get your lover back in love with you?”

If you are one of those that doesn’t want to break up or get a divorce or this is something that is quite recent, you should try to seek help. Try to find someone that has been through a similar situation or knows how to relight the spark that was once there. Try asking how to get your lover back in love with you. Some likely answers might be to go away together, remember old times or communicate with eachother more.

Going Away Together

Taking a trip together can be a great way to rekindle the bond that brought you both together. You might try going to a special spot that you’ve been to already where you felt very romantic. This is a terrific first step in figuring out how to get your lover back in love with you.

Remember Old Times

Thinking about the way things used to be and remembering all the good times could be just what the two of you need. Play a favorite song or movie that you both love. Revisit a special place that you both used to hang out at such as a restaurant or museum.

Communicate With Eachother

Avoid confrontation when talking with your lover. Don’t talk about what went wrong or be accusing. Talk about nuetral things such as how your day was or things of interest like what your partner loves to do. Try to ask questions that give you more than a yes or no answer.

There are many more things that you could do but one thing that will really help is just breaking up the routine. The key to making these plans work is to make them seem like spontaneous events. Make the road trip together random. “Stumble upon” the old music or movie and just start playing it. “Accidentally” open a box that has some old memorabilia that will spark a conversation about the old times. The key to finding out how to get your lover back in love with you comes with putting things in place for the two of you to “fall in love” again.