Do I Still Love My Ex – Sorting Out Your Feelings

 ”Do I still love my ex?”, it’s a question many people ask themselves after a break-up. There are many emotions that we go through when we break-up with someone and it could be a little difficult to understand all the mixed feelings we may still have for them. Even if it was a rocky relationship, sometimes we can still harbor feelings for the other person. This can go on for many months, even years.

In order to ever move on from one relationship to the next, we must sort through how we feel. If we can’t let go of our emotions we will probably never be able to have a fully healthy, functioning relationship with someone else. It is never good to hold onto old feelings – whether good or bad. Until you answer the question, “do I still love my ex?”, you will never be able to move on.

Find Out: Do I Still Love My Ex?

I am going to ask you a few questions. Once you answer them, you will have a better understanding of where you stand with your emotions towards your ex:

• Do you have a strong feeling or desire to see your ex?

Usually when a person is still in love with their ex, they have a very strong desire to want to see them again. You may want to phone them even if it’s just to hear their voice again. Have you ever driven past their house or place of work, just to hopefully catch a glimpe of them? You may have tried to see if they were hanging out at your favorite restaurant. All these are signs that you are still in love with your ex.

• How many times do you think of your ex?

Do you find that you are constantly reminded of them and thinking about them every time a certain song comes on the radio? Do you watch romantic movies and wish that the two of you were back together? Who is the first person you think of to call whenever a crisis or unsettling event occurs? These are also signs of being in love with your ex.

• How does it feel to think about your ex being with someone else?

Being in love with your ex, means that you are probably feeling very jealous if you hear that they are with someone else or see them together. Anger may follow as you think “how dare they invade your territory” even if your ex is no longer with you. 

Now that you have read through the questions has it given you a better understanding about your feelings and maybe you have actually said yes, I still love my ex? Most people who have ever asked that question, usually still harbor some feelings and need to sort through them.

Whichever decision you have made, whether you think you want to try and make up or you want to move on, needs to be thought about and pondered in a caring, calm way. Your decision will effect both you and your ex. Whatever that decision may be, you then need to begin to research additional information that can help you either get back together or move on.